Actually...

As my old friend used to say, "They (cf_hardcore) don't feed me, f***k me, or pay my rent." I don't owe them a damned thing, certainly not an apology for speaking my mind.

It was only after being banned that all the putdown posts were put up. This tells me that they are cowards--only a coward strikes at someone who cannot fight back.

Also I have vastly more important things to worry about...given that the fight for marriage equality in this country seems to be endless. It's a case of fighting the same battle over, and over ,and over again. I will expend my energy on something worthwhile, not a bunch of immature adolescents. I don't know them, they don't me, so nothing is owed on either side.